Respected, miss of ceremony
Respected, the juries are kindly
Respected, all my teacher
And my beloved sisters
السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته
الحمد لله و الشكر لله على نعام الله ولا حول
ولا قوة الا بالله ولا عدوان الا على الضلالة. اشهد ان لا اله الا الله وحده لا
شريك له و اشهد ان محمدا عبده و رسوله لا نبي ولا رسول بعده.
Alloh
said in holy Koran:
ياايها
الذين آمنوا اتقوا الله و قولوا قولا سديدا يصلح لكم اعمالكم و يغفر لكم ذنوبكم و من
يطع الله و رسوله فقد فاز فوزا عظيما.
And
rosululloh said:
اتق
الله ثم استقم.
The
first, let’s say Alhamdulillah together into our God Alloh SWT who has giving
us some mercies and blessings so we can attend in this happy place without any
troubles and obstacle.
The second, may peace and solution
always be given to our prophet Muhammad SAW who has guided us from the darkness
to the lightness from the stupidity to the cleverness namely Islam.
The third, I don’t forget to say
thank you very much to MC who has given me time deliver my speech under the
title:
“LOVE BETWEEN MAN AND WOMAN IS FITROH”
Human
isn’t a creature that has no feeling. With the gift from Alloh SWT, human is
given surplus that isn’t given to another creatures. One of the surplus is the
human has an attraction to another human. Moreover Alloh SWT gives the right
for a man to like a woman. As long as the attraction to another people is
applied with the right way, so it doesn’t be a problem. Moreover Islam regulate
and commands to its human race to distribute their love in a married. In some
side, love which distributed in a married will be praised. Because the instinct
of loving another people is the main character which had by each human, whatever
the religion and the ethnic. If the people doesn’t marry, he will distribute
his want to the thing that are prohibited by the religion, like adultery or
doing another bad things. And of course, for him a big sin and threat by
torture of hell. But, if he takes the way by married, he will get reward which
is very useful for him.
Not
like another religion, Islam doesn’t prohibit the human race to marry. Islam
very realize and understand the need of human. So with the gift from Alloh SWT,
Islam regulate the way, how a muslim full fill the necessity. The need of
loving woman or man are given solution by command them to marry. So they get
the generosity of Alloh in married. But in another side, Islam try hardly even
very hard to closed the door of adultery. The hard effort is proofed by the
awesomeness of torture to the people who did the adultery and bad effect which
will be got to the people whom did it.
My
beloved sister
Alloh
said in Ali Imron:
زين للناس حب الشهوات من النساء والبنين و
القناطير المقنطرة من الذهب و الفضة و الخيل
المسومة و الأنعام والحرث ذلك متاع الحياة الدنيا والله عنده حسن المئاب.
“ Fair in eyes of man is the love of things they covet; woman
and sons; heaped-up hoards of gold and silver; horses branded ( for blood and
excellence ), and ( wealth of ) cattle and well-tilled land, such are the
possessions of this world’s life, but in nearness to Alloh is the best of goals
( to return to )”.
So,
loving man or woman is a fittingness. But, it doesn’t mean that we can place
our heart and anchoring our felling to every people. Because of the answer of
love is a married.
It’s
right that it can be said that loving woman by the man and loving man by the
woman is a gift of human. But as a muslim, our gift has been regulated by our
religion. With the distribution, the way, and how to manage that gift. And is
it be a right of Alloh SWT to regulate us? So, why we deny to be regulated by
Alloh SWT?
Alloh
SWT has created us as a whole human. As a creator, Alloh SWT is very
understanding our necessity. If then Alloh regulate us, is that mean Alloh
doing zalim with us? No. Absolutely no.
Sister
in Iman
Love
to another human is a gift, but it isn’t with the reason that we are free to
love and do a relationship. Not with that reason then we say that what we do is
a gift which we have.
Actually,
you can love man whom you love. From what that you have been feeling, then you
effort, you try it with some provision, so the people can be your married
partner. And of course the way out of love is marring not having relationship.
But,
it’s different problem if the love comes prematurely. Love has come to your
first adult age. You feel happy because he is the one who very interesting. Get
all of your affection and careful. Besides that, actually he has a same feeling
to you. So how? Will you marry soon because the answer of love is a married? Or
you will make him to be your boyfriend?
I
think if we are not ready to marry, don’t make him to be our boyfriend. Because
by making him our boyfriend isn’t the way out. It just give you apparent of happy.
But, you should hide away your feeling in your heart. Let it just you and Alloh
who know. And you have to pray, hopefully Alloh make you strong and make your
heart ready to marry. Soon and not in haste, because it’s very different.
Sister
in Islam
Remember!
Many acts that would bring sin when done in relationship, but when the act was
committed in a married, it would instead be rewarded.
Before
I close my speech, let’s pray together
اللهم
انصر مجاهدين في سوريا و في فلسطين و في رهنيا. اللهم انصر مجاهدين في كل مكان و
في كل زمان
اللمم
إنا نسألك الهدى و السداد
اللهم
لا تدع لنا ذنبا الا غفرته و لا هما الا فرجته و لا دينا الا قضيته ولا حاجة من
حوائج الدنيا و الأخرة الا قضيتها يا ارحم الراحمين
ربنا
آتنا في الدنيا حسنة و في الأخرة حسنة و قنا عذاب النار و صلى الله على نبينا محمد
و على آله واصحابه اخيار و سلم تسليما كثيرا
I think it’s enough for me to speak before audience. I beg your
pardon for my mistakes, because we are only human who never perfect. Hopefully
what I have said in speech is useful for all of us. Thanks for your attention.
And last but not least, I say:
والسلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته
Nb: materi khitobah diambil dari buku Ust. Burhan Shadiq “Izinkan
Aku Menikah Tanpa Pacaran”. Ditranslate ke b. Ingg oleh teman baik, yang ku
tahu tapi tak ku kenal. May Alloh reward you, friend..
Kalau ada salah translate, harap maklum. Kasih koreksian?
Boleh, pake banget.
_Ai_
